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The Confidence on stilettos blog is where women go to be empowered and gain the necessary tools and resourses to achieve her goals, dreams and to elevate her habits to show up bigger, braver & Bolder in life & in business


Boss Babes Don’t Burn Out: My Soft Life Self-Care Routine for Peace & Power
Photography by: The Art of Po One thing about me, chile, I strongly dislike feeling rushed. That whole adrenaline-pumping, “you’re...

Laketta Willis
Aug 193 min read


Plan Your Soft Life Like a Boss: Manifestation & Goal Setting for the Woman Who Wants It All
Listen—I don’t care if you’re 22, 37, 43, or 59 with a closet full of life lessons and luxury handbags—goal setting is not optional. It’s...

Laketta Willis
Jul 303 min read


10 Habits That Turned Me Into a Soft Life Luxury Boss Babe (and Skyrocketed My Confidence)
Photo Credit: The Art Of Po Photography Let me keep it real with you—I spent years grinding, striving, and pushing like my next...

Laketta Willis
Jul 233 min read


The Cost of Being Too Nice? Your Sanity. Here’s How to Reclaim It
Let’s get straight to it: always being more than accommodating is costing you your peace, your energy, and quite frankly, your glow. The...

Laketta Willis
Feb 113 min read


Intentions, Boundaries, and Gratitude: My Daily Formula for Winning at Life
Let’s get one thing straight: everyone has their own version of success, whether it's being the next Beyoncé, the CFO of a Fortune 500...
makeiimage
Jan 282 min read


Level Up Your Life: The Power of Breaking Bad Habits on Auto-Pilot
Sis, let me tell you something: your habits are either setting you up for the glow-up of your life or keeping you stuck in the same old...

Laketta Willis
Jan 212 min read


The Truth About Self-Worth vs. Self-Esteem: Stop Confusing the Two and Reclaim Your Power
Photography By: The Art of Po Photography Self-Worth vs. Self-Esteem—Know the Difference and Take Your Power Back Truthfully, we all...

Laketta Willis
Oct 23, 20243 min read


Sis, You’re Not Busy—You’re Just Distracted: How Time Blocking Got Me Off the Hamster Wheel
Distraction, distraction after dang distraction. Huuunty, get focused! Do you want to achieve your goals or nawl? That’s what I ask...

Laketta Willis
Oct 18, 20244 min read


Stop Letting Other People's Doubts Write Your Story
We’ve all been there—listening to a narrator, whether it’s in a book, movie, or life itself, weaving a tale that pulls you in, guiding...

Laketta Willis
Sep 25, 20243 min read


Lessons in Loss: How Grief Transforms and Heals
Some life lessons don’t come with a cute little syllabus or a step-by-step guide. Nope. Some lessons punch you in the gut, leave you...

Laketta Willis
Sep 20, 20243 min read


Why It's Important to Forgive Yourself: Healing Journey
Healing truly hurts and it’s for this very reason that you must let the pain come in waves and handle each wave as it comes. When you...

Laketta Willis
Oct 4, 20232 min read


Imperfect In Love: New Goals
Love is such a beautiful, yet scary emotion to navigate and understand. It’s defined differently by everyone which is absolutely amazing...

Laketta Willis
May 11, 20233 min read


It's Time to Own Your Life & Power
In Today's YouTube video I give you insight and tips about owning your life and power unapologetically. You only have one life to live so...

Laketta Willis
May 3, 20231 min read


Let Go & Surrender
The one thing I’m learning to do is let go and surrender. We hear that phrase of “life is too short” very often and it always makes you...

Laketta Willis
Apr 20, 20233 min read


4 Tips to Show Up Confident in LIFE!
Confidence is that secret sauce that we all could use a little more of. I know at times you think your confidence is low but truthfully...

Laketta Willis
Apr 9, 20232 min read


4 Tips that Will Keep You Honest With Yourself
It’s so weird how we so often lie to ourselves. Things and situations, we could’ve long moved on from we keep ourselves grounded in. It...

Laketta Willis
Mar 21, 20233 min read


5 Ways to Motivate Yourself to Take Action
We’ve all been there before, the alarm clock goes off and we roll over to press the snooze button. Just a few more minutes and you’ll be...

Laketta Willis
Mar 14, 20234 min read


It's Time to Be Honest With Yourself
It’s so weird how we so often lie to ourselves. Things and situations, we could’ve long moved on from we keep ourselves grounded in. It...

Laketta Willis
Mar 9, 20233 min read


Rejection is Definitely Your Protection
Life is full of teaching moments, however by the time the assignment is being explained I’m shouting “this is a bunch of ol’ b.s.!” I...

Laketta Willis
Mar 7, 20234 min read


Just Be You! Self Care Edition
I swear that in this season of my life I don’t have time for the B.S. I don’t want any fake B.S. around me. If you have to turn on a...

Laketta Willis
Mar 2, 20232 min read
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