Plan Your Soft Life Like a Boss: Manifestation & Goal Setting for the Woman Who Wants It All

Laketta Willis
Jul 30
3 min read

Listen—I don’t care if you’re 22, 37, 43, or 59 with a closet full of life lessons and luxury handbags—goal setting is not optional. It’s essential. Period.

Soft life isn't just about sipping oat milk lattes on a weekday and posting cute pics in your robe with under-eye patches. (Although we’re here for all of that too.) The real soft life? It’s rooted in clarity, intention, and alignment. And babyyyy, that starts with setting goals like the boss you are.

Because here’s the truth: when you have something to work toward—something that lights your soul on fire—you walk different, you talk different, and you glow differently. Goals give your life direction, purpose, and honey, they keep you booked and too busy to entertain nonsense.

I don’t care if your goal is to start a business, run a 10k, or plant the most bougie pink peonies in the neighborhood—have a goal. Something. Anything. Because when a woman sets goals, the world shifts.

Now, let me show you how I map out my dream girl soft life (and manifest the hell out of it):

1. Get Clear on the Vision (Yes, Write It Down)

At the beginning of the year—or the start of your personal new year (birthday energy counts too)—I write out everything I want to achieve. I don’t hold back. I treat it like I’m scripting my dream life for a Netflix series, starring ME, of course.

Think:

What does your dream soft life look like?
How do you want to feel every day?
Where do you want to wake up, and who do you want to become?

Grab your pen, your planner (the cute one with gold coils), and write it all down like your future depends on it—because it does.

2. Visualize It Like It’s Already Done

This is where the real magic begins, chyle. I write about each goal in the present tense as if it’s already mine. For example: “I’m so grateful I’m running a six-figure brand that allows me to wake up slowly, sip my tea, and work with clients I actually love.”

Do it even if it feels weird at first. You’re not lying to yourself—you’re telling your subconscious mind where to go. And trust me, she listens.

3. Pick One Goal and Break That Baby Down

We’re not doing overwhelm in this season. Choose ONE goal to focus on. Just one. Then give it a due date—because deadlines create discipline.

Now reverse engineer that bad boy:

What steps do you need to take to get there?
What does that look like week-by-week or month-by-month?
Who do you need to become to make it happen?

This is where the real CEO mindset kicks in. Don’t just dream it—strategy it.

4. Speak Life into It with Custom Affirmations

Let’s get one thing straight: generic affirmations are cute... but custom affirmations hit different when they’re tied to your actual goals. If your goal is to become a full-time entrepreneur, an affirmation could be:“I am fully supported, divinely guided, and financially equipped to run a thriving business that brings me freedom and joy.”

Say it out loud. Say it in the mirror. Say it until it becomes your truth. Because your words have power, sis. Use them wisely.

Final Word, Sis:

The soft life doesn’t magically appear—it’s created, daily, by women who know they deserve more and aren’t afraid to claim it. Planning your life is an act of radical self-love. Manifestation is not just for the “woo-woo” crowd—it’s for women who understand that their future is in their hands, and their planner. So light that candle, pour your favorite tea, and get to planning.Your higher self is waiting. And babyyy, she’s booked, blessed, and unbothered.