Boss Babes Don’t Burn Out: My Soft Life Self-Care Routine for Peace & Power

Laketta Willis
Aug 19
3 min read

One thing about me, chile, I strongly dislike feeling rushed. That whole adrenaline-pumping, “you’re behind so hustle harder” vibe? Nah, that’s a false narrative I had to unsubscribe from real quick. That mindset is toxic, and I CANNOT STAND it. You know what it feels like? Like you’re sprinting on a treadmill that ain’t even plugged in—going nowhere, out of breath, and carrying anxiety as a side dish. No ma’am. I let that ish go.

Because let’s be clear: I decided that I am the life I desire—one rooted in peace, luxury, and ease.

And let me tell you something, sis—self-care isn’t optional for the woman I’m becoming. It’s not a bubble-bath-once-a-month kind of luxury. Nope. It’s a requirement if I’m going to live out this soft life while still serving boss babe results. I believe in being moisturized and organized—because honestly? That’s the real flex.

So if you’re out here building your dream life and protecting your peace, heeey girl—welcome to the club. Grab your journal, grab your water bottle, and let’s get into how I pour into me… because you cannot be a boss babe running on fumes. Period.

1. Mornings = Alignment, Not Chaos

My mornings are not about rushing. I refuse to start my day like I’m in a fire drill. Instead, I align myself and set the tone. I journal my intentions—asking myself: How do I want to feel today?

Notice, I didn’t say “what’s urgent.” I said what aligns with the woman I’m becoming. Because urgency will have you chasing everybody else’s priorities, but alignment? Whew, sis. Alignment has you stepping into your own power.

Example: “I intend to feel unexplainable joy today.” Or “I intend to move with clarity in every thought.”

That’s me calling the shots on how my day unfolds.

2. Hype-Woman Energy: Activated

Listen. If you’re not looking in the mirror and hyping yourself up, you’re missing out. Affirmations in the mirror are the plug. I don’t care if you feel silly at first—by the third affirmation “Girl, you are unstoppable and absolutely that chick,” you’ll start believing it.

Your confidence? Through the roof. Your energy? Unshakable.

This is how you reprogram your mind to remember who TF you are!

3. Skin & Body Care = A Love Language

Let’s make this clear: taking care of your skin, body, and appearance is not shallow. It’s not “just looks.” It’s necessary. It’s how you reconnect with YOU.

My skincare routine isn’t just about the glow—though yes, my glow be POPPIN! It’s also a ritual that slows down my thoughts and reminds me that I’m worthy of softness and attention. Every cleanse, every serum, every gentle massage is a love note to myself.

And for the record? My skin thrives when I treat it gently. That’s why I reach for my Makei Beauty Skin Love Face Oil—she keeps my hyperpigmentation and enlarged pores in check while reminding me that skincare is sacred, not rushed.

This is me saying: it’s okay to pause and love on yourself.

4. Midday Reset = Productivity Hack

Somewhere between my meetings and emails, I make time for me. Maybe it’s a walk, maybe it’s reading a chapter of a book, or maybe it’s just sitting outside with some fresh air.

Because here’s the truth: burnout is not a badge of honor—it’s a flashing neon sign that you need to soften up. Taking a pause doesn’t make you lazy, it makes you powerful. You’re replenishing so you can finish the day with focus, not fumes.

5. Sacred Evenings: Reflect, Reset, Release

When the day is done, I create space for honesty. I ask myself:

What went well today?
What didn’t go so well?
And most importantly… what do I need to forgive myself for?

Sis, I don’t carry today’s “L’s” into tomorrow. That’s dead weight. I reflect on the lessons, reset my spirit, and release the pressure. By the time my head hits that pillow, I’m at peace.

The Real Tea?...This Routine is Strategy.

Don’t get it twisted—this routine isn’t just cute Instagram aesthetics. It’s my strategy. It builds confidence because I’ve proven to myself that I can show up consistently, love on myself intentionally, and choose peace over pressure.

That’s the soft life for a boss babe: not weak, not passive—but rooted, radiant, and resilient.

And sis, I want this for you too. Because the truth is—it’s already inside of you. You just have to give yourself permission to live it.