Just Be You! Self Care Edition

I swear that in this season of my life I don’t have time for the B.S. I don’t want any fake B.S. around me. If you have to turn on a switch within yourself that’s outside of who you truly are please by all means do you, but stay far away from me.

I’m seriously asking, if you’ve ever felt like you had to fake the funk just to fit in? Girlll issa mess! We’ve had to do it for our jobs, certain friend groups, family and just people we pass on the street. I’m sorry it’s just too much dang energy if you ask me. You get to a point where you say damn enough already! I’m so there, been there and ready to move the hell on! If I have to switch up who I truly am just for you to “see me” then obviously I don’t belong in your tribe. You have to get to a point where you see and feel how dope you truly are and know with all certainty if someone doesn’t want someone like YOU in their life and you’re made to feel like you have to audition for them, then “toodles”.

What you see is what you get with me. I’m loud, quiet, funny, shy, goofy, oh did I mention hilariously funny, smart, a boss, stormy, solid, spiritual, high vibrating energy, a lover not a fighter but I’ll “knuck if you buck” if I have to (I’m so serious…lol). If I have to guess my place in your life, in your community, in your business, etc., I’m out!

Let’s start being transparent and saying what it is that we really want and need. What you want and need in life, in relationships, in friendships, in familial relationships, in business, and in love. Sis, stop dimming your light to fit in with any crowd. You are absolutely amazing. The only point of this blog is to simply remind you that you and you alone are enough. If you woke up today feeling lackluster, look in that dang mirror and say “I am ENOUGH”, “I approach today with high vibrating energy.” “I am a powerful creator and I create the life that I want and need”, and don’t forget to also say, “Today is a day of completion. Miracle shall follow miracles and wonders shall never cease.” Enjoy your day and don’t forget to smile and JUST BE YOU.

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